In a busy GP Practice, when do patients and staff get a moment to learn and understand a bit more about each other? Things like: How do staff feel about their role and the work they do? How do patients feel about accessing care, treatment, and appointments? And, crucially, what do patients and staff wish they knew or understood about each other?
Taking a moment to reflect on and share what we wish someone knew or understood about us, can help us develop a shared understanding of each other’s experiences. When we start to understand how we (staff and patients) feel, and what we wish could be different in a service we share – we can begin to make changes to our service; or explain why these service changes might not be possible (at least not right now).
A shared understanding also SIGNALS empathy and compassion – key values underpinning health care and community engagement. Sounds simple. So, how do we bring these values into patient and staff consultation processes to support service and system change?
Now, thinking about consultation processes for a moment: Often, we learn about stakeholder experiences through consultation by (directly) asking for feedback or (indirectly) finding out about people’s experiences through complaints. But are there other ways we can learn and engage with each other? Ways where feedback consultations are mutually engaging for public and staff. Ways that promote mutual sense-making of each other’s views and experiences and help us arrive at a shared understanding.
With these many wonderings and ponderings in mind, we co-produced the ‘Wishing Well’ concept with a Deep End GP Practice in the North East of England – to support patients and staff to develop a shared understanding of each other’s views and experiences of working with and caring for each other in their Practice.
What is this Wishing Well concept?
The Wishing Well concept helps us do consultation a little bit differently. Instead of asking for ‘feedback’ through surveys or working through (minor) ‘complaints’ to understand experiences – we asked patients and staff to make ‘wishes’.
We installed a physical wish box in the GP Practice and made a digital wishing well online accessible to patients and staff. We asked patients and staff to tell us what they wish others knew or understood about them. Inviting both patient-to-staff consultation and staff-to-staff consultation, to promote a shared understanding at all organisational levels.

